We have been friends with the Agar's since Bridget met Becki, Johnny's mom, as we learned about CP when Donovan was a baby. Johnny is 19, has CP and his Dad started doing 5k, 10k, Marathons and finally triathalons, with Johnny by towing, pushing or pulling, depending on the event.
This last Friday, their church, St. Patrick's, had their summer festival which included a 5k race. For the first time Johnny completed a race on his own by using his walker, for the last mile.
Here is a link to the story our local TV Station did.
Johnny's Incredible Run and Finish
Everyone should have Johnny's spirit and determination!
Donovan on his new bike
Sunday, June 30, 2013
First Picture from BC!
Saturday, June 29, 2013
Postcards from Donovan! #1
Well I arrived home from my travels to the farm, got the mail and low and behold a postcard from Donovan! Made my night (Bridget's too as I took this photo and emailed it to her. She spent the last night with Julie celebrating her birthday and the completion of PALM 2013.
We received a magazine from Bay Cliff telling the Story of the "Big House" and how the camp was formed and survived. This is their 80th year in business.
The Big House is the original farm house that a farmer built on the cliffs overlooking Big Bay. It was named as it was a big house and people referred to is that way and the nick name stuck. The house has grown and been renovated several times but the original foundation, made from the sandstone from the cliffs nearby, survives as it reaches 100 years old. The house is 18,000 square feet with big porches and the original field stone fire place!
Bay Cliff camp almost shut down in 1958 due to being $10,000 in debt. Elba Morse (one of the founders) convinced the executive committee to stick it out one more year trusting "God would provide". The next year the movie The Anatomy of a Murder, was filmed in Marquette and Big Bay. A member of the executive committee, Willard Cohodas, arranged for the wold premier to be shown in Marquette and Ishpeming. The were awarded a check for $10,000 and Bay Cliff was safe. Today their annual budget is $1,080,000 which is still raised from individuals, foundations and businesses. 86% of the funds raised is used to serve the kids (i.e. 14% covers administration).
The 1934 budget was $4,781.17. :)
The Big House is the original farm house that a farmer built on the cliffs overlooking Big Bay. It was named as it was a big house and people referred to is that way and the nick name stuck. The house has grown and been renovated several times but the original foundation, made from the sandstone from the cliffs nearby, survives as it reaches 100 years old. The house is 18,000 square feet with big porches and the original field stone fire place!
Bay Cliff camp almost shut down in 1958 due to being $10,000 in debt. Elba Morse (one of the founders) convinced the executive committee to stick it out one more year trusting "God would provide". The next year the movie The Anatomy of a Murder, was filmed in Marquette and Big Bay. A member of the executive committee, Willard Cohodas, arranged for the wold premier to be shown in Marquette and Ishpeming. The were awarded a check for $10,000 and Bay Cliff was safe. Today their annual budget is $1,080,000 which is still raised from individuals, foundations and businesses. 86% of the funds raised is used to serve the kids (i.e. 14% covers administration).
The 1934 budget was $4,781.17. :)
Tuesday, June 25, 2013
Donovan Letters No 3………….. 6/20/2013….
I didn’t think of Donovan
today, for a total of 6 times, over a course of 6 hours, for about 6 minutes
intervals. Otherwise he is always there….
It is Sunday night and I’m at Carl’s Godfather’s home in
Green Bay, Wisconsin. The frozen tundra
was very hot today and we had a wonderful sail on the Bay. John, (aka the godfather) is the man
responsible for getting me into sailing and it was the perfect day for sailing
his 16 foot catamaran. He has two of
them, so John and I were on one cat and his two sons (Paul and Thomas) where on
the other with their friend.
The sun was warm, the air was humid, the water warm, and the
wind was perfect for flying a hull.
Luckily we didn’t hear the immortal words from John’s lips, that is an
indicator we are about to capsize or pitch pole. It was a day the doctor ordered and I needed.
I thought of Emma on her first day of the PALM Ride and the
fact they were going to bike 45 miles today in this heat. Unlike Donovan, I could call her and text her
and get instant knowledge and reassurance she is having fun and enjoying the
ride. The tone in her voice confirmed
she is fine. Hope her Aunt Julie is ok,
as she had a rib pop out (from a previous injury) the day before a ride. I’ve had a cracked rib. Very painful…
Good luck Julie Kaboolie….!!
Here is the route they are taking for their ride!
PALM Lake Michigan to Lake Erie! |
I thought of Bridget and how she was doing with just her,
Carl and Buster hanging out at the house.
As I suspected, she spent the day working in her gardens as this was
perfect weather (for B) to be sweating it out, getting the gardens in order
after a spring of neglect. Unfortunately
for Carl, being the only other able body at home, he was recruited to help
out.
My mom and dad were on my mind a lot today as they both have
medical procedures being performed the next couple of days. Mom makes hers out to be nothing and Dad’s
isn’t major either. I’m heading there
tomorrow to help out. The reality of it
is Mom’s is more than nothing but planned for and Dad’s, like others in recent
history, as is the case with my dad, popped up at the last minute. He doesn’t like going to the doctor.
It has been an interesting year in our family. Many, many trips to doctors, hospitals,
emergency rooms,,, etc. Lot’s going on.
My sister Julie finished her degree and got her license so she is now a
practicing Nurse Practitioner. Craig
was fighting no power at his house as Minneapolis had some storms go through
and a tree crashed on their baby sitters car as she was watching my nephew
Sean. Nieces getting married (Megan) and
searching for colleges (Evy).
Three trips to Face Book today, ok more than six, to see if
they have posted any pictures of our boy. NOPE!
Very Frustrating, disappointing and just plain sad….
Well, just have to take a trip there again in the morning…..
Monday, June 24, 2013
So Very Grateful!!
It's been over a week since we dropped Donovan off at Bay Cliff. I cannot wait to see him, hear his stories, see his progress, hug him!
We've spoken with camp staff a few times and hear he is doing great, working hard and making friends. We're anxiously awaiting photos to be posted on Bay Cliff on Facebook. They are very careful about what is publicly shared since they are a health camp.
As we wait and keep faith that Donovan is having an amazing and positive experience, I want to take a minute to thank the organizations that have been a part of this journey.
Helen DeVos Childrens Hospital- Wow, how to express it...Dr Forness and your team; we will be forever grateful for the incredible work you have done to give Donovan an amazing new gait! We only expected enough changes to help him increase efficiency as he walks and avoid future hip issues. What we quickly saw though as he began to walk again was a beautiful new gait! He's got a long way to go towards full strength and changing those old habits but we are so excited for the potential!
Thank you to the whole team at the hospital, Donovan's nurses, the aides, administration for driving excellence in health care and comfort! All of you played a role in making this most difficult part of the journey as comfortable as possible and free of post op complications. Your care was compassionate, exceptional, gave us confidence in Donovan's recovery and prepared us for the next steps.
Mary Free Bed... What an amazing team you are! Your expertise in therapy and rehabilitation gave Donovan the absolute best start at this next phase. Through moments of discomfort, resistance and frustration, you pushed and supported Donovan to do the hard work, to keep him progressing and not allow plateaus in progress to win. You taught us (again!) to trust that Donovan can do more, should do more, and can be as active and enjoy just about anything in life that he chooses to! Dr. Rush, we so appreciate your tenacity to solve problems and your advocacy to keep the intensive therapies when our insurance company resisted. Some of you were new to us, some of you got to work with Donovan during his last stay. We are forever grateful for all of your care!
I also have to say a very heartfelt word of appreciation to all of you that shared a parallel journey at Mary Free Bed. I can't express enough how humbled we were that you shared your personal stories, how blessed we felt for the moments of support and the moments when our support was needed. The stories and strength within the many families can't be easily explained but please know you remain in our thoughts, our prayers, and we hope to stay in touch.
Family Hope Foundation... a fairly young but very effective foundation started to facilitate information sharing and support to families with special needs children. The FHF has done an amazing job of being a conduit of what's happening, what resources are available, links to the many great providers throughout West Michigan, and providing scholarships to families for therapies not covered by insurance... 61 scholarships were distributed this round!. We will forever be grateful for the scholarship we have received to help towards Donovan's stay at Bay Cliff. The average cost for a camper at Bay Cliff's Summer Therapy Camp is $5,000. The camp itself offsets some of this through it's own fundraising but it was still an expensive proposition for us, particularly in this year of many costs associated with the surgery, the hospital stays, the eating away from home and the traveling between home and the hospital. This grant allows Donovan to take the next step in this long journey of intensive therapies. It is helping him to re-energize in a new and exciting setting, where he is making new friends facing similar challenges and celebrations, and with a staff that brings expertise, enthusiasm and compassion. This is giving him the best shot at stabilizing the gains the surgery brought, strengthening his spirit and independence, and giving him a peer group to grow with that face challenges just as his but won't be defined by them. be defined by them.
Emma and Carl... Wow, you have risen to the occasion! I don't know how we have been so blessed but we have! You both have done an amazing job of growing up fast, of working together and with Dad and me to be responsible, to support Donovan, and to take care of yourselves during this time. We are so proud of you and grateful for you!
We've spoken with camp staff a few times and hear he is doing great, working hard and making friends. We're anxiously awaiting photos to be posted on Bay Cliff on Facebook. They are very careful about what is publicly shared since they are a health camp.
As we wait and keep faith that Donovan is having an amazing and positive experience, I want to take a minute to thank the organizations that have been a part of this journey.
Helen DeVos Childrens Hospital- Wow, how to express it...Dr Forness and your team; we will be forever grateful for the incredible work you have done to give Donovan an amazing new gait! We only expected enough changes to help him increase efficiency as he walks and avoid future hip issues. What we quickly saw though as he began to walk again was a beautiful new gait! He's got a long way to go towards full strength and changing those old habits but we are so excited for the potential!
Thank you to the whole team at the hospital, Donovan's nurses, the aides, administration for driving excellence in health care and comfort! All of you played a role in making this most difficult part of the journey as comfortable as possible and free of post op complications. Your care was compassionate, exceptional, gave us confidence in Donovan's recovery and prepared us for the next steps.
Mary Free Bed... What an amazing team you are! Your expertise in therapy and rehabilitation gave Donovan the absolute best start at this next phase. Through moments of discomfort, resistance and frustration, you pushed and supported Donovan to do the hard work, to keep him progressing and not allow plateaus in progress to win. You taught us (again!) to trust that Donovan can do more, should do more, and can be as active and enjoy just about anything in life that he chooses to! Dr. Rush, we so appreciate your tenacity to solve problems and your advocacy to keep the intensive therapies when our insurance company resisted. Some of you were new to us, some of you got to work with Donovan during his last stay. We are forever grateful for all of your care!
I also have to say a very heartfelt word of appreciation to all of you that shared a parallel journey at Mary Free Bed. I can't express enough how humbled we were that you shared your personal stories, how blessed we felt for the moments of support and the moments when our support was needed. The stories and strength within the many families can't be easily explained but please know you remain in our thoughts, our prayers, and we hope to stay in touch.
Family Hope Foundation... a fairly young but very effective foundation started to facilitate information sharing and support to families with special needs children. The FHF has done an amazing job of being a conduit of what's happening, what resources are available, links to the many great providers throughout West Michigan, and providing scholarships to families for therapies not covered by insurance... 61 scholarships were distributed this round!. We will forever be grateful for the scholarship we have received to help towards Donovan's stay at Bay Cliff. The average cost for a camper at Bay Cliff's Summer Therapy Camp is $5,000. The camp itself offsets some of this through it's own fundraising but it was still an expensive proposition for us, particularly in this year of many costs associated with the surgery, the hospital stays, the eating away from home and the traveling between home and the hospital. This grant allows Donovan to take the next step in this long journey of intensive therapies. It is helping him to re-energize in a new and exciting setting, where he is making new friends facing similar challenges and celebrations, and with a staff that brings expertise, enthusiasm and compassion. This is giving him the best shot at stabilizing the gains the surgery brought, strengthening his spirit and independence, and giving him a peer group to grow with that face challenges just as his but won't be defined by them. be defined by them.
Emma and Carl... Wow, you have risen to the occasion! I don't know how we have been so blessed but we have! You both have done an amazing job of growing up fast, of working together and with Dad and me to be responsible, to support Donovan, and to take care of yourselves during this time. We are so proud of you and grateful for you!
Thursday, June 20, 2013
Donovan Letters #2
Dear Donovan,
Well I’m on my way back from San Francisco and enjoying a
very quiet moment in the Minneapolis Airport at 5am. I arrived on the Red Eye flight at 3am and of
course, my arrival gate was at the complete opposite end of the airport. Oh well, I had time to kill and the walk felt
good after sitting for 4 hours on the flight home. Coffee!!
None to be found…. The only workers in the airports are
cleaning and maintenance crews…. Well, will just have to wait until something
opens.
Mom talked to Miss Emmy (I think that is her name) and she
said you are doing well. Enjoying the
games at therapy, eating better (due to the medication that sometimes affects
your appetite) and having lots of fun with your cabin mates! All good news and reassuring that you are
adjusting and making the most of it like you always do, when challenged!
Of course Mom would feel better if they would post some
pictures on their Face Book page so you could see your face. They can’t send us pictures directly for fear
of breaking the HIPAA rules (funny, think anyone will know what that is when
(if) you read this in 20 years)!
I just checked out Bay Cliff’s face book page and no new
photo’s.
………………………….. later that day………..Clark Kent is washing out
his S suit……… :)
Well after a good nap and some good food and a good shower, I
felt halfway human. Mom is running
around getting Emma ready for the PALM ride, getting Carl from Basketball Camp
and I’m writing you and having a pop. It’s
a beautiful day here but too hot for me.
Mom loves this weather. The hotter
the better for her.
Miss you….
Wednesday, June 19, 2013
Donovan Letters.... #1
Dear Donovan,
I’m sitting in my hotel room in San Francisco thinking of
you… like I have every minute of every waking moment since I last saw you in
the rear view mirror. You stood there
with tears in your eyes, standing tall, and not wanting, but willing, to stay
at camp. The pride I felt in you at that
moment has never been higher. My
confidence in you, when I saw those rainbows on the way home, never
stronger. God has blessed us with your
strength, determination, charm and joy for life.
Yes you are determined, stubborn, relentless, strong, and
challenging! All qualities that will get
you where you want to go and enrich the lives around you. I’m proud of you as well as, Carl and
Emma.
Since you have departed (ok were abandoned) we’ve seen
little steps and big steps from your best friends (who are your siblings) that
are quite amazing and yet not. They have
taken strides of their own during this journey that reassures me you three will
(along with your great group of cousins) continue our family’s great tradition
of sticking together, supporting one another and always having a good time, no
matter the road blocks that need to be overcome.
Sharing in both good and challenging times, always willing
to come running at a drop of a hat when necessary for family or friend.
Watching the three of you on the way to camp laugh, giggle
and goof around is always a joy. Seeing
you fishing with the Johnson boys, and how Ricky, Emit and Elliot always take
care of you, creating special events for you, and yet treat you like just
another one of the gang is just simply incredible and yet not.
It is just our family.
What it is supposed to be, what we are blessed with, what your
grandmothers, grandfathers, great uncles and aunts gave us, your parents and
aunts and uncles…. Strong families, traditions, strengths, and determination
and skills to overcome our own weaknesses and mistakes. Yeh, we’ve made a few, like you will
someday. But what your generation of our
families, are learning now from your strength to overcome the fear of being
away from camp, is the knowledge to address your fears and have the confidence
to learn from it and thrive.
Can't stand and fish... Ricky gets him a chair... Donovan lands the biggest fish of the day! |
Or as your grandpa Don would say… “pull up your socks, wipe
your nose, and keep going” Not sure that
is an exact quote, but you get the jest…. Just another mistake of your dad that
your mom or one of your aunts or uncles will correct me on later…..
Tuesday, June 18, 2013
Of Angels and Rainbows.....
The beautiful grounds of Bay Cliff overlooking Lake Superior |
For those that haven’t heard us explain, Bay Cliff Health
Camp is an 80 year old camp in the Upper Peninsula. Their premier program is Children’s Summer
Therapy Camp; a seven week session where kids are immersed in therapy but in a
camp setting with no limits on how it happens (i.e. no insurance guidelines to
dictate what can be therapy). I stumbled
upon it over a year ago when I was looking for a camp for our entire family to
attend to help us grow from the experience of living with CP. At the time I was only interested in us
coming as a family but as I talked with the therapy coordinator, Miss Christy,
and heard things like, “we’ve had kids with that surgery and they’ve made great
progress” I knew we should consider it for Donovan.
It truly took me an entire year to think about sending
Donovan away this far or for this amount of time without crying. We knew this
was a wonderful resource but how could we let go of him for seven weeks!? And, how could we consider this when he
has been through so much already this year!?
How would he do away from us, not only Steve and I but his best friends
and best advocates; Emma and Carl?
As we learned more about what the rehab from the surgery involved, it became easier to see this camp experience as a gift. It has the potential to help him grow stronger faster and would be a lot more fun than the therapy models we use already; driving each day for a one hour session. And, almost more than the rest, the idea that Donovan would be surrounded by kids with differences, who will understand his situation, not allow him to fall into the “I can’t because I have CP” thinking, and will be friends without differences defining who they are.
As we learned more about what the rehab from the surgery involved, it became easier to see this camp experience as a gift. It has the potential to help him grow stronger faster and would be a lot more fun than the therapy models we use already; driving each day for a one hour session. And, almost more than the rest, the idea that Donovan would be surrounded by kids with differences, who will understand his situation, not allow him to fall into the “I can’t because I have CP” thinking, and will be friends without differences defining who they are.
One of the main buildings. Many beautiful buildings including the original farm house and barn from the 20s |
So Steve and I agreed we needed to do this. But, Donovan is not a “camp kid”. He wants to be home, he wants to be with us
and he is a very clear thinker and will commit 100% but it has to be his
decision. Our turning point was when a
wonderful Miss Erin came to visit Donovan while he was in Mary Free Bed. She is a Bay Cliff staffer working on
finishing her Masters in Occupational Therapy and happened to be living in
Grand Rapids for the year. She brought
her laptop full of Bay Cliff photos and sat with Donovan on his hospital bed to
tell him about Bay Cliff. Within
minutes, he said “I want to go there” and we knew we could do this.
The banner that greets you as you enter the therapy gym. It says it all! |
From Steve...
Of Angels and Rainbows…..
I hadn’t seen a rainbow in I don’t know how many years but it has been a while. Could be I just wasn’t looking for one or it could be it just never struck me when there was one in front of me.
Phase four of Donovan’s journey was the check in at Bay
Cliff and leaving our nine year old in the capable handles of strangers. Thank God Erin was there. She was the wonderful OT who took time for us
while at Mary Free Bed, and spent 3 hours filling Donovan’s heads with wondrous
stories and pictures of camp. She got
him pumped to go…. Even after telling him later it was seven weeks…
In the Therapy Gym with Erin |
Erin is spending two weeks working at the camp in transition
from moving from Grand Rapids to Royal Oak.
It’s a mystery to me (and yet not) how things work out to take care of D
(and the rest of us). It just so happens,
Erin had a window of opportunity and Bay Cliff (BC) let her come to volunteer
at the camp during her transition.
Seeing her friendly face as we walked in to check in and check it out, made
all the difference in the world. It
settled our nerves and reassured Donovan, as much as possible, that he already
had one friend at BC.
As we took the tour and met all the staff (from therapists
to ground keepers) it was apparent how kind, soft spoken and passionate
everyone is, and they are all involved in taking the raw campers who enter in
June, to work on maximizing their potential by August. We met first time campers and experienced
ones; first time counselors to the 20+ year Director. There was a lot of enthusiasm, warm faces and
encouraging words (for both campers and families leaving precious packages)…
BC originally was a Dairy Farm (ironic huh!) and held its
first camp in the 20’s for kids with Polio.
It was one doctor and 6 kids. You
can still see the original farm house, barn and silo on a cliff overlooking
Lake Superior. Although many of the
buildings are very old with “classic” looks, everything was immaculate, clean
and well cared for. Check in was orderly
and took about 3 hours. Each staff
person listened intently, got to know D, answered all our questions and more,
and left us encouraged and hopeful.
Miss Kim, D's Speech therapist who btw teaches at a bilingual school in Chicago! |
Miss Christy (PT) in the Therapy Gym |
Miss Carrie, D's OT |
Donovan, in all this fuss of checking in, was having fun, getting impatient, being charming (working his magic on the staff) and showing off his camp as he discovered new things. The campus is large and spread out but not daunting. We moved from building to building and learned all we could. As Bridget and the kids started this process I unloaded the truck with D’s stuff. Bike, golf clubs, fishing pole (thank you Johnson clan for the new pole and gear!), two bags of stuff and a back pack.
The Bike Porch where Donovan's Terratrike is with many other adapted bikes! |
Emma and Carl handled
things fairly well. They liked exploring
the camp and buildings, Emma talked with staff and Carl ended up playing with a
bunch of the kids as we unpacked Donovan in his cabin. There is a total of 6 boys in his cabin, and
he by far, he had more stuff than anyone (6 stuffed animals, books to read, pillow
pet, etc. etc..) Of course the day would
not be complete if Emma and Carl didn’t complain about it being all about D, or
about each other or being bored or etc… In other words, kids being kids.
If you hadn’t noticed, I’m stalling talking about the good
bye. It is easy to talk about the great
views and people when it really only boils down to the last 5 minutes. It all started when D realized it was close
to us leaving. Bridget and I were in his
cabin talking with his Cabin Counselor and wrapping up things, Emma was
conversing with a couple of boys in the room and Carl was outside playing some
sort of ball game with a dozen or so camp kids, being the ring leader.
The next thing I see is D bolting across the lawn from his
cabin to the truck about 75 yards away.
Emma came up to me with a concerned look and said D is saying he wants
to go home.
Bridget was finishing up with details with the counselor so
I walked over to D who by this time was on the other side of the truck, about
to open the door. As I approached him I
asked him how he was doing and told him how much fun he was going to have. He said he wanted to go home in a low,
somewhat wining voice. I ignored the
comment and said Mom wanted to get a picture of all of us, so if he would move,
I’d get Buster out so he could be in the picture too.
The next 15 minutes or so are hard to describe. Fear, hope, sadness, and pride. As much as D pushed to go home, I could tell
he’d get through it. It wasn’t that
determined “I’m going to throw a fit voice”, I heard in previous push
backs. It was I don’t want to do this
but I know I should. He wasn’t afraid as
much as he just didn’t want to leave us.
Earlier in the day as we were driving to the camp, he said
to Bridget he didn’t want to go to camp, but he would if SHE wanted him
too. Bridget said she did, and all he
said was. “ok mom, I’ll do it for you”!
At one point, as we were now behind the truck, as we were
moving to a tree where I thought we could get a picture, he got really
frustrated and looked at me hard with tears in his eyes. I bent down in front of him so my face was
only inches from him, and said he forgot to shave my beard, and that we would
do that when he came home. (he hates my beard as it tickles him when he hugs
me. For a while he wouldn’t give me a
hug).
He laughed a little between tears (there were many in this
sequence of events with him, but not loud crying) and said NO! I told him I’d let him shave funny figures
shapes if he would be strong and have a good camp. He laughed at the idea of shaving an Angry
Bird into my face and his eyes brightened slightly! Then the tears started again (no... crying) and
I looked at him close and said “if you don’t stop it you’re going to make your
dad cry. You want to make your dad cry,
do you?”. He thought that was funny and laughed pretty good and the tears
stopped for a moment. I choked back my
emotions and got him over to the tree on my lap and we got a few pictures. Not without a few struggles with him refusing
to pose and Buster being silly.
As this was all going on (before the pictures) Bridget went
and thank God found Erin who helped take the pictures with D’s cabin
counselor. After we got the pictures
done, Emma and Carl did a quick goodbye and jumped in the truck and loaded
Buster. Now it was imperative we move
quickly and leave. I sensed Bridget needed to get her emotions away from Donovan's sight. She kissed him on the head without words because she was loosing it and got
in the truck. As Erin and his Cabin
Counselor bracketed D to give him support and encouragement, I gave him a quick kiss on the head and told D
I loved him and was very proud of him and ran for the truck.
I started the truck, turned around and waived to D. He was visibly upset and crying as he watched
us from the side of the driveway. As we pulled away, Carl opened his window and
said “Bye Donovan! STAY STRONG!” and we pulled away to leave him the hands of very capable staff.
It took everything I had to focus on keeping the truck going
forward, telling myself we were doing the right thing, he would be ok, the
strangers who now had our precious son, would take great care of him and
someday, at his graduation, he would tell Bridget and I this was a turning
point in his life to true independence and strength to achieve all I know he is
capable of.
As we drove down the road, Carl and Emma talked about how
cool the camp was and how well D would do there, giving us “parents”, words of encouragement. Carl asked his mom if she was ok and
reassured her D would do great. As I
heard his words I took a brief look at B and could only remember the night we
let Emma cry herself a sleep when she was 9 months in her crib. Only this time, B didn’t have a bottle of
wine and a FULL box of Kleenex.
As we drove down the road, it took all I could muster to
keep the tears back as much as possible. Only a few small leaks escaped
me. I couldn’t remember a more
emotionally wrenching time as I watched Carl and Emma launch onto their iPods. They were dealing with this in their own ways. About
this time, Bridget ran out of Kleenex and used up all the fast food napkins in
the truck, we saw a rainbow appear over Lake Superior! It definitely made us feel better, and
Bridget yelled to the kids to see it!
The mood was broken, a little….
Not easy to see but the rainbow is arching right over the road ahead |
We stopped for dinner at a little restaurant in Munising
after 30 minutes in the truck. It
provided a moment of respite from the emotions, as we focused on food and the
US Open Golf tournament on the TV. As we
were leaving the restaurant, a squall came off the lake and a big down pour had
infiltrated the open windows in our truck (we left them open for Buster). After several minutes of scrambling in and
out of the restaurant for paper towels to clean up and me trying to find my
phone, (thinking I left it on the table, only to realize it was in my back
pocket), we started the long journey home.
Can you see the double rainbow! |
As we crested the valley Munising is in, there was another
rainbow, then another one, then a double rainbow. I can’t tell you how many we saw, but each
one was bigger and brighter than the last.
Bridget tells the story about angels and rainbows. As she recounted the story of Kevin, all I
could think of was the special people in our lives who have passed and were the
instigators of all those colors to reassure us.
Happy Father's Day, Daddy |
Donovan would be alright.
We would be alright. All those angels were overlooking Bay Cliff
watching and talking to him, giving him strength and determination, as we finished our drive home….
Epilouge.... from Bridget.....
The next day... I talked with Donovan's main cabin leader who said he had a rough 30 minutes but then took interest in the camp activities and had done great since then. We asked about bedtime, thinking it would be hard again for him but heard that he did great and was even one of the strongest in his cabin.
That's our Donovan!
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- So Very Grateful!!
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- Donovan Letters.... #1
- Of Angels and Rainbows.....
- Donovan's ok : from Bridget
- School and Parties
- Hom... Part Dos...
- Home..Where I want to be...
- Going Home!
- New Friends
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